TeenHealthFX can absolutely understand why you would be feeling so upset and angry. But we think that the person who should really be embarrassed and apologetic is this guy for being so unbelievably rude and inconsiderate to you. No matter how much you weigh or what he may have done to his back, he has NO right to be so hurtful and cruel to you. He may have been the one to say “forget it,” however, FX thinks that you should forget him.

As for what to do from here, since you are feeling so angry, FX thinks it depends on what you want. For example, you could:

• Go up to this guy and say something like, “When you kissed me and dropped me I actually felt embarrassed and realized I tried to apologize. But the more I think of it, you should be the one to be embarrassed and to apologize for fro acting in such a crappy way. You may have said ‘forget it,’ but I say, ‘forget you.’”
• Stay away from this guy and put him on your list of mean people who you just don’t have the time for. If he approaches you in any way or says anything else that is cruel in the future, stand up to his boorish behavior and stand up for yourself when and if the need ever arises.
• Think about how you want to be treated and how you deserve to be treated. No one has the right to curse at you and put you down. Try to think of some things you can say if anyone ever tries to do or say something hurtful to you in the future – and remember that you do not have to apologize or make up for other people who act like baboons!