Sexuality & Sexual Health: Miscellaneous / Question
Published: August 20, 2008
Dear TeenHealthFX,
Alright i have searched everywhere for an answer for this but i can't find one! I have been sexually active for about two years now and this has never happen to recently. whenever my girlfriend and i are kissing she likes to grind on top of me. The only problem is that when she does this i can't help myself but to ejaculate and sometimes i have to make her stop so i don't. is there anything i can do to stop this or help the situation!?
Signed: Ejaculate Too Soon
Dear Ejaculate Too Soon,
When people are younger and the hormones are racing, it is very common not to require a great deal of stimulation to become sexually excited. If you find that you are climaxing too soon, then communicate to your girlfriend that she needs to slow down and be more at pace with you when you find yourself getting too excited too soon.
If you choose to engage in vaginal, anal, or oral sex, make sure that you are your girlfriend are both emotional ready for this kind of physically intimacy. And ensure that you are practicing safer sex by using a new condom each time you have vaginal, anal, or oral sex, as well as a back-up method of birth control, such as the pill or patch.
If you have any further questions about this issue, or need to talk to a doctor about the best birth control methods for you and your girlfriend, schedule an appointment with your primary care physician. If you don't have a doctor and live in northern
Signed: TeenHealthFX
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