Sex Definitions / Question
Published: May 9, 2001
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I do not have sexual intercourse, but if a guy is touching my private parts, is that considered to be sexual activity and what are the risks of developing STDs?
Signed: Touching Private Parts - Sexual Activity?
Dear Touching Private Parts - Sexual Activity?,
TeenHealthFX is assuming and hoping that this guy is touching your private parts with your consent. Someone touching private parts, whether they are your own or someone else's is considered sexual activity. It is hard to tell from your letter if you are comfortable with this touching. If you are not, please get help! Talk to a trusted adult, teacher or your doctor.
About the risk of STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) - there is a small risk if one partner has an STD and touches their own genitals and then touches their partner's genitals. There is also a small risk of pregnancy if a male partner gets semen on his fingers and touches a female partner's genital area.
For more information, check out some other answers on our site to learn more about sexual health, like Ready For Sex And Proper Protection. You can also make an appointment at your local teen health center for more information. They can help you learn about STDs and contraception, two subjects that are vital to your sexual health. They can see teens confidentially on a low or no cost basis.
Signed: TeenHealthFX
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