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Is It Okay For My Boyfriend To Rub His Penis On My Vagina Without A Condom?

Published: February 10, 2014
Dear Is It Okay For My Boyfriend To Rub His Penis On My Vagina Without A Condom?,

Is it okay for my bf to rub his penis on my vagina without a condom??


Dear Is It Okay For My Boyfriend To Rub His Penis On My Vagina Without A Condom?,

There are three potential concerns with this that TeenHealthFX wants you to consider:

  1. The first is that pre-ejaculatory fluids (also known as pre-cum) contain sperm and can cause pregnancy if they come in contact with the vagina. So while your boyfriend may not ejaculate during this sexual contact or penetrate the vagina, it is possible that pre-ejaculatory fluids can come in contact with the vagina and cause pregnancy.
  2. The second potential concern is that some STDs, such as herpes, can be spread by skin-to-skin contact.
  3. The third potential concern with this is whether it will create a situation where you will get so caught up in the moment you will end up having unprotected sex. And this will put you at risk for unwanted pregnancies and the transmission of STDs.

If you and your boyfriend want to continue in this kind of sex play, FX does recommend using condoms. FX also thinks it would be helpful for you to make sure you are educated about safer sex, STDs, and how you can and can’t get pregnant. If you have any other questions or concerns, please speak to your doctor.

If you don't have a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-5199 for an appointment with an adolescent medicine specialist or contact your local teen health center or Planned Parenthood. You can also contact your insurance company for a list of in-network providers.

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