My Friend is Disgusted with Me. How Do I Make It Up to Her?

Published: February 19, 2021
Dear TeenHealthFX,
Hi, Me and my friend are both 17. We began hanging with four older lads two months ago, they are around 19. Very early on they began pressuring us both into giving them oral sex. My friend hated it but I went along with them and let it happen. She's stopped hanging with them now but is really disgusted with me because I'm still hanging with them and I'm now having oral sex with all four of them. How do I make it up with her? She wants me to stop seeing them but I dont want to as I'm enjoying it.
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Dear My Friend Is Disgusted with Me. How Do I Make It Up to Her?,

TeenHealthFX understands that having disagreements with friends can be challenging. It may be possible that your friend is just worried about you and wants you to be safe. It is important to have an open and honest conversation with your friend. This way you both can learn to understand where the other is coming from.

In addition, TeenHealthFX would also like to mention the importance of practicing safe sex. Since you mention having oral sex with all four of them, we strongly recommend you get tested for sexually transmitted infections. We also encourage all teens to use condoms every time they engage in any type of sexual activity, including oral sex. Condoms are only 98% in preventing the transmission of sexually transmitted infections when used correctly and on every sexual encounter.

Signed: TeenHealthFX

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