Unsure About Telling My Best Friend My Feelings, What Should I Do?

Published: November 16, 2024
Dear TeenHealth FX,
hi, i have this guy friend who genuinely cares about me, it seems to me that i am the only girl he's this caring about. i have fallen for him this past year, like head over heels for him. we've been friends for the last almost 11 years. i don't think i should tell him this but i really want to show some of my feelings. people ship us together as well, but i think i'm not ready for a relationship cause it might break our friendship. what should i do?
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Dear Unsure About Telling My Best Friend My Feelings, What Should I Do?,

TeenHealth FX knows how conflicting your feelings must be. TeenHealth FX suggests having a conversation with your friend to see how they feel and think about everything.  We know having that conversation sounds scary, but it can answer a lot of your questions and clear up any confusion. 

Something that stood out in your question is that you feel you may not be ready for a relationship. If you feel like you are not ready for a relationship because of fear on how it will affect the friendship, then that is a normal feeling and should not stop you from exploring something! If you feel like you are truly not ready for a relationship and rather focus on yourself, then do not let anyone pressure you into something you are not ready for!

Again, communication and vulnerability are key in situations like yours!

Signed: TeenHealth FX

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