How Do I Clean My Penis?
Based on the information you provided us, it sounds like you may need to ask a medical professional for help. You should never pull the foreskin to the point where it is painful, and it requires a gentle cleaning with a mild soap. We strongly recommend reaching out to a parent or trusted adult and let them know what is going on. Getting checked out by a doctor will give you a chance to receive help on how to clean under your foreskin without causing damage.
If you need help finding a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-5199 for an appointment with an adolescent medicine specialist.