Warning Signs Of A Dangerous Relationship
- Jealousy and possessiveness are not signs of a healthy relationship. Mutual caring and respect are far better ways of showing affection.
- Drugs and alcohol are never an excuse for inexcusable behavior. A boyfriend/girlfriend who has a problem with drinking or drugs may be more likely to become abusive.
- Bullying and intimidation have no place in a healthy relationship. If you feel scared or pressured, it is probably time to reevaluate.
- People change and sometimes relationships need to change with them. Just because a relationship started out on a positive note, if it no longer makes you happy there is no reason you can't end it.
- If your boyfriend or girlfriend is isolating you from your friends, family, or simply the things you like to do, it could be a sign that something is wrong. There needs to be a balance between time spent with your significant other and time spent with family and friends.
- Being embarrassed or criticized in public or in private is not acceptable behavior. Verbal abuse can be just as hurtful as any other kind and needs to be addressed.
- Any attempt by your significant other to hurt or scare you physically means that you are in a volatile and potentially dangerous situation.
- Games are not fun when they mess with your mind and your feelings. If you feel like you are being manipulated it may be cause for concern.
- If you are feeling really insecure about yourself or the relationship, it could be a sign that something is wrong.
- If you suspect at all that you may be involved in a situation that is making you uncomfortable and you can not handle on your own, talk to a parent, counselor or other trusted adult. You do not have to accept abusive behavior from anyone and there is lots of help out there for you.
